M&FP - Counseling Services
Counseling Services, consisting of the Victim Advocates program and the Family Advocacy Program (FAP), provide a variety of programs and services to military members and their families to enhance life skills and improve their quality of life. This mission is accomplished through a variety of seminars, workshops, treatment groups, counseling, and interventions services. Individual, marital and family counseling, provided by licensed professionals, is available by appointment.
Monday-Friday, 0730-1630
Kaneohe Bay, Building #216
Phone: 808-257-7781 and 808-257-7780
Menu (click any of the following for more info):
HOTLINE NUMBERS
SEXUAL ABUSE
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
VICTIM ADVOCATE
FAMILY ADVOCACY PROGRAM
RESTRICTED VS. UNRESTRICTED REPORTING
SUICIDE PREVENTION & AWARENESS
ADDITIONAL MATERIALS & FAQS
Hotline Numbers:
• Installation Victim Advocate Crisis Line: 808-216-7175 (24 Hour Confidential Hotline)*
*Victim Advocates are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to help individuals and families who are victims of sexual assault or domestic violence.
• Military One Source: 1-(800) 433-6868 (24 hours/7 days)
• Sex Abuse Treatment Center: 808-524-7273 (24 hour hotline)
Sexual Assault & Abuse Information
Call the Installation Victim Advocate Crisis Line: 808-216-7175 (24 Hour Confidential Hotline)*
*Victim Advocates are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to help individuals and families who are victims of sexual assault or domestic violence.
You can also receive assistance by calling any of the following numbers:
• Kapi'olani Sex Abuse Treatment Center: 808-524-7273 (24 hour hotline)
• DoD Safe Helpline, 1-877-995-5247 (24 hour hotline)
Click here for the Sexual Assault Prevention Program website.
POC: Sexual Assault Prevention & Response Program Manager
Bldg 216, 808-257-7777
MCB Hawaii, Kaneohe Bay
Domestic Violence Information
You have the right to live without fear and violence. You are not alone.
- Are you abused?
- Do you feel afraid of your partner most of the time?
- Are you isolated from family and friends?
- Does your partner humiliate, criticize, or yell at you?
- Does your partner hurt you, or threaten to hurt or kill you?
If you have answered yes to any of the questions please contact the Victim Advocate program.
See below for next steps.
FIRST STEP: GET HELP FROM VICTIM ADVOCATES
For emergencies call 911.
Or, call the Installation Victim Advocate Crisis Line: 808-216-7175 (24 Hour Confidential Hotline)*
*Victim Advocates are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to help individuals and families who are victims of sexual assault or domestic violence.
USMC Victim Advocates provide information, guidance and support to victims. They are first responders.
| Victim Advocates 808-257-7784 & 257-8857 |
Domestic Violence Hotline |
SECOND STEP: COUNSELING
Family Advocacy Program (FAP)
In addition to Counseling Services, the Family Advocacy Program is dedicated to the prevention, education, reporting, intervention and treatment of domestic violence.
Our Family Advocacy Program has a highly-qualified, licensed clinical staff, trained in family violence and are available to provide counseling services at your request.
Family Advocacy professionals are also available to assist commanders and other leaders with various trainings, briefings, and workshops to aid in domestic violence prevention.
The MCBH Family Advocacy Program currently has numerous materials available for commanders, individuals and families including videos, reading materials and more.
Are you looking for information on how to give support to victims?
PDF “If Someone You Know Is Being Abused”
RESTRICTED VS. UNRESTRICTED REPORTING – What is It?
- Restricted Reporting
- Unrestricted Reporting
NOTE: If domestic or sexual abuse is disclosed to someone other than a FAP victim advocate or a Marine & Family Programs Clinical Counselor, or a Military Medicine contact (defined below), it may result in command FAP notification and law enforcement investigation.
What is Restricted Reporting?
A victim may disclose domestic abuse to certain individuals without command, law enforcement of Family Advocacy Program (FAP) notification and will still be able to access information, support, advocacy and medical care. Any adult eligible to receive military medical treatment may make a restricted report of sexual or domestic abuse by a spouse, former spouse, intimate partner or former intimate partner.
NOTE: If domestic or sexual abuse is disclosed to someone other than a FAP victim advocate or a Marine & Family Programs Clinical Counselor, or a Military Medicine contact (defined below), it may result in command FAP notification and law enforcement investigation.
Who do I go to for Restricted Reporting?
FAP Victim Advocate: 808-216-7175 (24-Hour Hotline)
Marine & Family Programs Clinical Counselors: 808-257-7781
Military Medicine – any person authorized to provide direct patient care in military medical/dental facilities.
Exceptions:
- When there is an imminent threat to health or safety of the victim or another person.
- When child abuse is suspected
- When required for fitness for duty in disability retirement boards
- For supervision of direct victim treatment or services
- When a military, federal, or state judge issues a subpoena
- When required by federal or state statute or applicable international agreement
Additional Resources
Domestic Violence Action Center Hawaii (DVAC)
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Groups, Classes & Workshops
Cage the Rage: Anger Management Class
All of us suffer from stress at some level. the Cage the Rage series teaches how to effectively manage stress and understand and control anger. Classes are ongoing, with six sessions in each series. You can start anytime. Orientation is required prior to your first class.
Class: Every Tuesday
Bldg. #216, 0900 - 1100
Orientation: Every Tuesday
Bldg. #216, 0800 - 0900
Marriage Skills Workshop
Presented every month, this couples workshop explains the fundamentals of being a successful military
family. Subjects include couples communication, budgeting and finances, where to find helpful resources and
much more. Spouses and fiances are highly encouraged to attend. View PDF for more information and 2012
workshop dates.
Class: Third Wednesday of every month
Bldg. #219, Classroom 3 - 0815 - 1600
Building Healthy Relationships
This eight-session, psycho-educational group develops knowledge in self-awareness, assertiveness, communication, listening, stress management, conflict resolution and more. Open to all active duty members and spouses, each session targets a different subject.
Class: Every Thursday
Bldg. #216, 0900 - 1100 or 1300 - 1500
Orientation: Every Tuesday
Bldg. #216, 0800 - 0900
Prevention & Relationship Enhancement Program (PREP)
PREP is a one-day couples communication and problem-solving workshop offered at the MCBH Chapel. Participating couples receive a copy of the book "Fighting for Your Marriage," two PREP one-day notes for couples, and a magnetic speaker/listener technique floor tile. Materials and lunch are provided at no cost.
Location: Base Chapel
Phone: 808-257-3552
Chaplain's Religious Enrichment Development Operation (CREDO) link